You are the ReInforcer

Whatever role you play in life, you have the opportunity to be the reason others keep coming back.

Keep coming back to:
School;
Work;
Church;
Home; or
Hobbies.

How can I do this? 

It's not as complicated as you might think, even with the most difficult:

Student,
Colleague;
Child;
Parent;
Client;
Patient, or
Boss.

You decide and believe their presence makes a valuable difference, no matter how difficult or different they might be. Then you express it to them by telling them "thank you for coming."

And mean it.

And they will know you mean it but they may not smile at you the first time you say it because they might not believe it (because you might not believe it either the first time you say it). But if you say it every time with a sincere desire to want to believe it, they and you will eventually smile

And their behavior won't seem so difficult to you.


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